Information about Overcome Parental Alienation .com

A bold plan to inject common sense and solutions to help equip parents who are victimized from Parental Alienation.

OvercomeParentalAlienation.com, has taken it’s first flight into the blue skies of Twitter!  Our first launch on Twitter is officially ahead of schedule.  You can find us at @Overcome_PA.  The site will feature personally written articles 2-4 times each month and curated articles will be posted from across the internet and posted in English.    

I was in the depths of endless legal hearings for over ten years. Too often I felt like I was drowning in despair. But sometime during this period, I realized the pathway to unification with our kids is bleak, yet not so unattainable as to give up all hope. Overcoming parental alienation centers on our hope for a return to a loving relationship with our kids.

For most parents, overcoming parental alienation may require a strong focus and a forward-thinking mentality to note we have done everything possible to reconnect with our children.  Sadly, the abuse from parental alienation may limit or eliminate a loving reunion.

Most loving parents are faced with the stark reality that a reunion with their kids may not be possible. Overcoming parental alienation forces us to make the choice to elevate all good possibilities found within our own beautiful minds with strength, creativity, kindness, and the determination to live life as a beacon of happiness despite the deep sorrow in our hearts. 

The rejection from our kids who have been mentally manipulated to participate in alienation against us is not normal.  This rejection is rooted in the manipulation from the abusive parent and undermines our loving hopes.  We must fight back against this extensive abuse from the agitator so we can navigate our lives to victory. The word victory should imply the victory to see our kids.  However, if we cannot reunite with them, then the victory would be to pass through parental alienation to live a meaningful and rich life, knowing we did our absolute best to overcome everything despite the evil that has happened to us.

If you have arrived at the point where you have done everything possible and, for what ever reason, a reunion isn’t possible with your kids, you may want to expand your vision to adopting a child or teen who needs your love and attention.  If you can adopt, or perhaps you can embrace the love of a new partner and have another child, this would give you a new family. This could be the path to let you have a life that is full of love and enrichment. 

Please note that I am NOT saying to replace your children with other kids.  That is a huge insult to you, your children, and any adopted children you bring into your life. What I AM saying is that you have a great capacity to love and to turn your grief into joy by sharing your love with children who have no one else to love them.  But before you do so, make sure you are truly in the right place mentally to do so.  When you bring a child into your life, it’s a permanent thing.

I was unable to adopt a child and knew it was not a promising idea to do so when my ex-wife was attacking me constantly with malicious intent. Instead of a child, I had my little dog. I genuinely believe my sweet dog Jenn, filled a great sorrow in my heart with her sweet loving ways. I’ve always been truly thankful for her rescuing me in my dark days. Later on, some special people showed kindness and love towards me and helped me to overcome the pain of my reality.  Realizing my daughter was lost to me was the hardest thing I have ever had to endure.  My heart was so broken I did not know if I would ever recover. Thanks to some special people in my life, I have found the grief has lessened to the point I have found happiness again. I try my best to give to others who suffer from PA; this site is an extension of my hope for you and others to overcome Parental Alienation. 

Parental alienation once limited my best efforts. It created major medical issues, impacted my housing, created vast and endless financial conflict, and endless other gut-wrenching moments.  Enduring parental alienation in the most extreme form came from her mother, who is the director of counseling for a large public school system.  She succeeded with lies and manipulation to cause my daughter to want nothing to do with me.

Parental alienation began when my daughter was just three years old; she is now 27 years old.  There was a tremendous loss of time, love, and a kind and loving relationship with Alexis when she stopped communicating with me when she was roughly 16. I gave her as much love and attention as possible and tried hard to do my best every day.  I even took lessons from the local hairstylist when she was little to learn how to create princess hair styles, fancy pigtails, and more. 

If you are personally aware to the fact that you may be involved in your own separation with conflict reminiscent of parental alienation, then you must also be aware that 3 divorces out of ten possess some form of parental alienation. You must not compare your circumstances with couples who can co-parent. Instead, you are facing PA and you are dealing with a parent who will abuse your own child’s wellbeing to throttle some form of control. They will do so by lying, cheating, and stealing the most precious love in your life. They will try to punish you by using your own child against you. And this is not normal behavior. 

After years of conflict and new information about my ex-wife’s devious behavior, I decided to be open about my circumstances. I decided to create OvercomeParentalAliention.com, and the site will launch next week. 

Today’s article encompasses open and important thoughts about parental alienation and my newest efforts for OvercomeParentalAlention.com.

The landscape of social media has taken a bold move towards Free Speech. Twitter is now our first destination, to be followed by Facebook and other social media platforms. 

If you know someone who is in the beginning, middle, or end of their own custody case involving Parental Alienation, please share this article with them and invite them to follow my new Twitter account which is specifically focused on PA. 

My next update will be the official launch of OvercomingParentalAlienation.com.

Thank you for taking your time to read this article.  Please do what you can to promote my new Twitter account and the site.

Love is the greatest defender,

Darel L. Long